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A Chinese man proposes to girlfriend with dress made from 9,999 real red roses.

 Yin Mi being proposed to by her boyfriend in the gown made of 9,999 roses at Chime-Long Paradise amusement park in the southern Chinese province of Guangdong

Dressmakers worked around the clock to prepare the garment, and Yin Mi patiently waited as it was adjusted on the day.
She topped the creation with an ivory-white fur shrug and clutched a vibrant stem of yellow orchids. 
 

The couple caught the eye of onlookers as they took to the grounds of Chime-Long Paradise amusement park in the southern province of Guangdong.
It is where Mr Fan first met Yin Mi three years ago when she was crowned Miss Bikini 2009.
And judging by the dazzling engagement ring on her finger, Ms Mi accepted the proposal.

 Blushing bride: Dressmakers prepared Ms Mi for the occasion carefully stitching the 9,999 red rose blossoms together

 Ms Mi topped the impressive creation with an ivory-white fur shrug and clutched a vibrant stem of yellow orchids

But there was a reason for Mr Fan's order of 9,999 roses.
The number nine represents 'forever' in Chinese culture and in Beijing's Forbidden City- the most well-preserved imperial palace in China - the emperor is said to have requested 9,999 rooms to be built.
According to legend the number 10,000 was reserved for gods, therefore the emperor believed the number 9,999 would take him closer to heaven and bring him good luck.
Meanwhile the orchid is known to symbolise love, beauty, refinement, fertility, virtue and maturity.


5 Tips to a Healthy Relationship! (Must read, you will Agree and Love)

Be FULL of love and happiness!


To have a successful and healthy relationship, one must already be self-fulfilled, happy, and exude love. It can be destructive to try to go into a relationship seeking happiness when you’re not happy with yourself. You are in control of your happiness. It is a matter of choice. Take the step in finding it in yourself before you find it in someone else.

Communication

 One of the most undervalued assets for a long-lasting relationship is communication. How is someone supposed to know how you feel if you don’t express it? It’s always healthy to express yourself when you feel a certain way. When you communicate with your partner, you are able to discuss the issue, simplify it, and resolve accordingly. Never let a thought ponder in your head; express your point of view as well as keeping your partner’s perspective in mind.

The idea is not to argue and see who’s right and who’s wrong; the idea is to reach an agreement that’s beneficial for both parties.

Work as a team

Dependability



Dependability exercises your trust in a relationship. When you make promises or plans, always follow through. Your words mean everything to your partner, so when the time comes to take action, deliver!

We have all been in a situation where we depended on someone, or someone depended on us. Keep this in your mind when your partner asks something of you.

What they’re really saying is how much they need you at that moment. Be present. Let them know you are there for them. Even simple, reassuring words can make a world of difference.

Be YOU!


This has to be on of the most important tips to a healthy and successful relationship. Most people go into relationships pretending to be someone that they’re not, and this is what ruins the potential of a remarkable relationship. Being yourself allows the other person to see your individuality, and enables them to appreciate you for it. Don’t be afraid to be vulnerable, because healthy relationships are made of real, wholehearted people. 
Drop all expectations and assumptions. If your partner can’t accept your flaws, then they certainly don’t deserve your strengths.
Explore together and have fun
 Be adventurous with your partner and try new things. Keep the relationship fun and go out into nature and explore what life has to offer. There should never be a dull moment. This is also the best time to get to know your partner in a new environment while make a powerful connection. Always be open to each other’s differences and take the time to explore one another’s passion.

Having a healthy relationship is actually simple, but somehow people complicated it with expectations, lack of vulnerability, communication, and authenticity.


By exercising these fundamentals, your relationship will prosper and expand beyond what you ever imagined. The connections that you build with your partner will be fortified with these mindful practices.

Hope  you enjoyed my post, find love with your Heart, not with your eyes.